On Bridging the Gap in the Sexual Behavior of the Sexes: The Mediating Role of Culture/Environment
Sexuality is an important component of human life given its implication for sexual satisfaction, reproduction, egalitarianism and the continuity of the human race. The purpose of this paper is to present a review of the literature on cultural sex-role prescriptions for male control and female deference particularly in the Nigerian literature, and to demonstrate the implication of such for relationship satisfaction, sexually transmitted infections and egalitarianism, and the building of a virile society. In this article, we emphasize the socio-cultural specifics of the Nigerian society and its role in perpetuating power imbalance, sexual inequality and sexual in-expression between men and women.
Adedeji Julius Ogunleye,
Tosin Tunrayo Olonisakin,
Sulaiman Olanrewaju Adebayo,
On Bridging the Gap in the Sexual Behavior of the Sexes: The Mediating Role of Culture/Environment, Humanities and Social Sciences.
Vol. 3, No. 2,
2015, pp. 88-95.
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